MAY YOUR WAY BE ROUGH

Am very sure you are a bit perplexed seeing that the author said may your way be rough.
May your way be rough is a prayer we should always pray before entrying into a New year. Challenges is a way for shaping or bringing our mind into a state to think and work at it peak.
We never have a champion that is not challenged and is overcoming the challenges that makes the champion.
When we say may your way be rough it just saying may challenges come our ways so that it could make the champion in us.
Looking at the life of Nelson Mandela I discovered that he was a man that see a transformation perspective to living. After he was sentenced to 27 years imprisonment he became a legend every one want to imitate and he as also set a mark that can never be forgotten. Those that sentenced him made it a way to destroy him but it was an opportunity to stardom. At his burial 90 head of states was presence to celebrate him, infact no head of state has ever been celebrated like Mandela. He  was the only human allowed to call Queen Elizabeth by name. Thank  God his enemy pushed him to prison by making his way rough for the world to celebrate him today..
Taking a look also from the Bible for the story of David in the bible, thank God  for the anointing and the  the Goliath of that time.  David didn’t see Goliath as a threat but rather an opportunity to move to the next level in is career. As i was reading through my bible today i discovered that he asked the King what will be giving to him if he was able to conquer Goliath. We are always one person away from our long awaited breakthroughs and miracle in life, we only need to embrace the problems and move  towards our set   end in life. Life is a battle field and to become a champion you must fight to possess your possession In life.
Please let encourage challenges and those challenges will make us celebrities in the awaited year.........WELCOME TO 2014

Dont go to your grave with that potential

The wealthiest spot on this planet is not the oil fields of Iraq or Saudi Arabia. Neither is it the gold and diamond mines of South Africa, the uranium mines of the Soviet Union, the silver mines of Africa, or the oil rich part of Nigeria. Though it may surprise you, the richest deposits on our planet lie just a few blocks from our house. They rest in our  local cemetery or graveyard. Buried beneath the soil within the walls of those sacred grounds are dreams that never came to pass, songs that were never sung, books that were never written, paintings that never filled a canvas, ideas that were never shared, visions that never became reality, inventions that were never designed, plans that never went beyond the drawing board of the mind, and purposes that were never fulfilled. Our graveyards are filled with potential that remained dormant potential. What a tragedy! my heart frequently weeps as I encounter and observe the wasted, broken, disoriented lives of individuals who, years before, were talented, intelligent, aspiring high school classmates. During their youth they had dreams, desires, plans, and aspirations. Today they are lost in a maze of substance abuse, alcoholism, purposelessness, and poorly chosen friends. Their lives are aimless, their decisions haphazard. This enormous tragedy saddens me. What could have been has become what should have been. The wealth of dreams has
been dashed into the poverty of discouragement. Only a minute percentage of the five billion people
on this planet will experience a significant portion of their true potential. Are you a candidate for contributing to the wealth of the cemetery?
Dont go to your grave yard with that potential....die empty

OLAWALE SAMUEL: SET ME FREE SO THAT I CAN LIVE

OLAWALE SAMUEL: SET ME FREE SO THAT I CAN LIVE: It was the moment for which everyone had been waiting all evening. The thunderous applause of the excited crowd filled the air after t...

SET ME FREE SO THAT I CAN LIVE

It was the moment for which everyone had been waiting all evening. The thunderous applause of the excited crowd filled the air after the mayor made the announcement, “ Ladied and gentlemen, it give me a great pleasure to present the Outstanding year award to Dr. Femi Oluwole, jr., for his outstanding service to the community”

A well-built young man arose to his feet and eye was on his as he walked confidently through the podium. Sitting at the table he had left were his father Mr  Femi  Oluwole  Sr., and his mother, Oluwaseun. This was the moment for which they had waited all their lives-  to see their son become all they have envisioned for him. As pride fills their hearts, they knew that no one in the room could understand their sense of accomplishment, satisfaction and fulfilment.

Mr. Oluwole had always dreamed of being a medical doctor. While his son was still quite young, the father had told him that he would do whatever it took  to see that the son could become the doctor the father had never been. Young Femi Oluwole parent had laboured at many jobs over the years and had lived without the convenience of life just to make it possible to see their son to attend medical school and to complete his internship. This evening made those sacrifice worthwhile, as Femi junior now brought honour and respect to the family.

As Dr. Femi stood on the stage, holding the microphone, the crowd rose to their feet. Cameras flashes and shout of adulation filled the room. Then, as the applause subsided, silence filled the room. Everyone waited for the respond of the brilliant doctor. For a moment the stood erect, posed to peak. Then his composure broke and, with tears flooding his eyes, the young doctor pleaded with his parent in a loud voice that mirrored the despair in his eye, “Please, Mom and Dad forgive me. I am sorry, but I can’t go on.”  Everything I have accomplished and achieved during this year has been done to please you, Dad, and to fulfil your life longed dreams. I have become what you you wanted me to be, but I have never become who I am. “In spite of the cars, home and other materials things I now have, my life is empty. I never wanted to become a doctor like you did, Dad.in truth, I hate being a doctor. I always wanted to be a Musician,  but you and Mom would not allow me to follow my dreams.

 Please understand that I love you and respect you deeply. I know all have sacrifice to provide me with my education, and I thank you for it. But tonight I realized that I cannot continued living and fulfilling your dreams and expectation. I must start fulfilling my own dreams. When I accepted that award tonight, I felt like a hypocrite. Someone I don’t even know earned that award because I don’t know myself. I want to live I want to come alive. I want to be with what I was born to be. Please set me free and let me live

There are millions of Femi Oluwole Jr.,in our world today. Perhaps you are one of them. They are busy, active, dedicated, faithful, famous people who are accepted, respected, revered and admired. But deep inside, they are tired, frustrated, bored, disillusioned, confused, empty and depressed. Their lives are aimless. Day after day they go on smiling, pretending and living uo to an identity and reputation that is different from their true selves. The lie they live and their inner yearning to be freed from the tyranny that binds them are a constant source of internal conflict. This human need for personal meaning and satisfaction  is universal. Each of us must discover this personal purpose and pursue it relentlessly, or we will fail to live a rich, whole, meaningful life.

No amount of accomplishment can replace the power and motivation of finding your own special niche and working toward your dreams.

OLAWALE SAMUEL: THE POWER OF OUR THOUGHT

OLAWALE SAMUEL: THE POWER OF OUR THOUGHT: Thought are the powerful seed that when mixed with a definitness of our purpose, persistence, and our burning desire for translation into ou...

PURPOSE FOR LADIES

GUYS You don't need to fight any woman, force her or even beg her to be decent and responsible. The truth is that, you are only going to waste your precious time. Ladies only change when they discover whom they are,
when they discover their purpose and when they discover that there is more to life than sex and material things. Although, only few women are always fortunate enough to discover their purpose and value early, some don't even do, in their entire life. So, why not teach her how to discover her worth, or walk away as a gentle man, cos, love is not enough when a lady is not ready. LADIES Believe me, there is more to life than sex and materials things. If you are still a slave to any of the two things I just mention above, then you have not discovered your purpose in life. Some are comfortable with their financial status, but are being "fools" all in the name of feelings. Some deemed it fit to betray their worth, take shits and succumb to humiliating treatments, all in the name to get money and material things from men who do not worth them in all angles of life. Please, I want you to sit today and ask yourself what are your achievements over the years, and I'm certain that they will not be more than cloths, fancy phones, designer bags, shoes, and highest, a car! And if you could be sincere toy ourself, remember all you have passed through, having to pretend that you love someone, allowing them to use your body, your precious body, all in exchange of money and material things. At the end, its that innocent gentle man that will still
come along and make you a wife, and you will be certain that considering and evaluating your past, you rarely do not worth his love. At the end, all that which you desired, that makes you to subject your precious body to use, rough handling and probably sex will be useless.
Then, you will sit down and count the people whom has used you like a taxi and you will just pity your life. Believe me, it doesn't worth it. Forget what your friends are wearing, forget the phones that they are using, cos year after year, better things are invented, and you know the good news? It doesn't matter if you have yesterday or not, cos, when you arrived tomorrow, you will be proud of yourself. You could stand in midst of millions and be certain that your nakedness is a mystery to all of them. You will forget all you passed through within seconds and all the men that you turned down, even with their money, when you need it most, will testify, not just on earth, even hereafter, that you deserve your class, both on earth and in heaven. Learn to be contented today, for all we have is vanity upon vanity. Today is not the end of the world, so, don't let what you are passing through define your worth or overall whom you are not.

FEAR OF WHAT THEY WILL SAY.

To be successful, you need to learn to overcome your fear of being rejected and stop worring about what others people say and think about you. So many times I've met people who hold themselves back simply because of what their freinds might say if they did something different. I know, because i was the same way. Coming from a small geographic location, everyone knew what everyone else was up to. If someone didn't like what you were doing, the whole town heard about it and made your business their business.
One of the thing i told myself over and over was, "What you think of me is none of my business. What is most important is what i think about myself" infact i was in a service oneday when my pastor said when you get worried about what people say about you then you are proud and every since i lost interest in what people say about me. we must overcome our shyness and fear of being rejected.

YOUR GREATEST POWER

It is easy to blame condition; it is easy enough to blame relative; it is easy enough to blame the government; infact it is easy enough to blame everybody and everything, if we all chooses to do so. But, anybody who recognizes this great power...the power to choose...will begin to make progress, not only in his career life, but also in is social,personal  and family life.
 He begins to realize that he is the one that is doing the choosing and that freind, although they mean well and add well but cannot do his choosing for him, nor can his relatives. Consequently, he develop real self-confidence based upon his own ability,upon his own action, and upon his own initiative

BLACKMAN AND WAY OUT

It was the final leg of the group stage of the UEFA Champions league a game that is being loved by every football lover. while seeing the match that this wonderful writeup came across my mind. There is no racial discrimination in the field of sport -Every body takes part from the same spot both in relay race and football, i could remember when Nigeria played Italy in a friendly match,we were not asked to take our position at different direction.In the world of premier league every team has black in his team. in 100meter race all athlet takes off from the same spot and whosoever get to the finish line first is the winner not the one with the special colour. It then  occur to me that we are succeeding in competing favourably in sport, but not in other area. There are some international organization with no black on board because of the black man assumed sticken mentality. The are law of equality of destiny, physiologically there is no difference between races as every human is essential makeup of the same cells, tissues, organ and system. As a matter of fact a black Man's kidney can be transplant into a white man and it will work perfectly irrespective of the race and colour.

 In Conclusion there is no better brain in the generation of idea- i was shock someday when a friend of mine said if Mark Zukerberg was a Black he will never achieve what he has achieved today.All brain are made by God and are the same with the skin colour not withstanding. What makes the different is how we put it into use. This will help us to free our mind from every sense and notion of depending and feeling of inferiority.
      until we reconstruct our thinking pattern, we cannot change our environment, as our environment is subject to what goes within us.......... it does not have to be white to be right.

"Prison itself is a tremendous education in the need for patience and perseverance. It is above all a test of one's commitment." if we want a change so desperatly we must strive to be the change that we desire.
Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela life is a testimony to Africa and its a lesson for us to learn. Not living for ourselves but helping and investing in other. May His  Soul rest in Perfect peace

THE POWER OF OUR THOUGHT

Thought are the powerful seed that when mixed with a definitness of our purpose, persistence, and our burning desire for translation into our desire success in life.Thought are the seed where our lives and destiny depend on as the power of every thing lies in it seed.
where we are today is a product of our thought yesterday and to change from where we are to where we ought to be  must begin from a repositioning in our way of thinking.when a man really desire a thing so deeply,like desiring to breath in air when at the bottom of the river .He  will take his entire life on a single turn to get it and am very sure he is sure to win.
We all have pictures of how our life’s desires, dreams and expectations should play out. We all want to see the manifestation of these dreams. Many people have dreams but never actualize them. Some dreams are discarded because the dreamers never really believed in them. Some dreams remain dreams in the mind; they are never discarded but will also never be actualized. Try and recall the dreams you had in the past and think about what happened to them. All things are borne out of dreams through the thought in our mind.